God's good gift of sexuality and how to use it for His glory and our good has been corrupted since the creation of the world. Sex between unmarried (fornication), adultery, divorce and remarriage, and homosexuality are accepted as normal in modern society and young people, even Christian young people, are being influenced by this Satanic lie that ""if it feels good--do it!"" This booklet is sent out with the prayer that it will save many young people from heartache and the curse that these serious sexual sins will bring on them. There is the good way, the biblical or reformed way for living chastely as a single person, finding and courting a mate, and marrying and staying faithful to that mate. This booklet has been a long time since inception to publication! First conceived thirty years ago, very few copies of an older version were produced by Covenant Evangelical Reformed Church for young people in Singapore in 2011. The original has been substantially expanded by quotations from Protestant Reformed Church ministers. ""This book on sexuality and sex by a medical doctor who is a Christian is as rare as it is helpful to young people and their parents. It does what parents ought to do, but often neglect to do. It instructs young people, frankly, even bluntly, concerning their sexual organs, the sexual desire, and the sexual act . . . . This is the book on sex that Christian parents can give to their youth, as the aid to the parents' own frank instruction."" --David J. Engelsma, professor of theology emeritus, Protestant Reformed Seminary, Grandville, Michigan ""[Kennedy's] book helps Christian young men and women to handle with care the gift of sexuality, which is treated as a god by the world. . . . I encourage every young person to read this precious book and take Kennedy's advice to heart."" --Balint Mark Vasarhelyi, theologian and mathematician, Hungarian translator for the Protestant Reformed Churches
Handle With Care!
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Description
God's good gift of sexuality and how to use it for His glory and our good has been corrupted since the creation of the world. Sex between unmarried (fornication), adultery, divorce and remarriage, and homosexuality are accepted as normal in modern society and young people, even Christian young people, are being influenced by this Satanic lie that ""if it feels good--do it!"" This booklet is sent out with the prayer that it will save many young people from heartache and the curse that these serious sexual sins will bring on them. There is the good way, the biblical or reformed way for living chastely as a single person, finding and courting a mate, and marrying and staying faithful to that mate. This booklet has been a long time since inception to publication! First conceived thirty years ago, very few copies of an older version were produced by Covenant Evangelical Reformed Church for young people in Singapore in 2011. The original has been substantially expanded by quotations from Protestant Reformed Church ministers. ""This book on sexuality and sex by a medical doctor who is a Christian is as rare as it is helpful to young people and their parents. It does what parents ought to do, but often neglect to do. It instructs young people, frankly, even bluntly, concerning their sexual organs, the sexual desire, and the sexual act . . . . This is the book on sex that Christian parents can give to their youth, as the aid to the parents' own frank instruction."" --David J. Engelsma, professor of theology emeritus, Protestant Reformed Seminary, Grandville, Michigan ""[Kennedy's] book helps Christian young men and women to handle with care the gift of sexuality, which is treated as a god by the world. . . . I encourage every young person to read this precious book and take Kennedy's advice to heart."" --Balint Mark Vasarhelyi, theologian and mathematician, Hungarian translator for the Protestant Reformed Churches
About the Author
Julian Kennedy is a Scotsman and Edinburgh University medical graduate (1976). He came to faith in 1974. In 1983 he was sent by his church as a medical officer aboard the OM ship MV Logos and met his wife-to-be, Marianna, in Venezuela. They courted by letter and married at her home in Trinidad in 1985. They have two adult daughters and a son. He worked mainly in emergency medicine until he retired in 2017. He is a deacon of Covenant Protestant Reformed Church in Ballymena, Northern Ireland.
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Overview
God's good gift of sexuality and how to use it for His glory and our good has been corrupted since the creation of the world. Sex between unmarried (fornication), adultery, divorce and remarriage, and homosexuality are accepted as normal in modern society and young people, even Christian young people, are being influenced by this Satanic lie that ""if it feels good--do it!"" This booklet is sent out with the prayer that it will save many young people from heartache and the curse that these serious sexual sins will bring on them. There is the good way, the biblical or reformed way for living chastely as a single person, finding and courting a mate, and marrying and staying faithful to that mate. This booklet has been a long time since inception to publication! First conceived thirty years ago, very few copies of an older version were produced by Covenant Evangelical Reformed Church for young people in Singapore in 2011. The original has been substantially expanded by quotations from Protestant Reformed Church ministers. ""This book on sexuality and sex by a medical doctor who is a Christian is as rare as it is helpful to young people and their parents. It does what parents ought to do, but often neglect to do. It instructs young people, frankly, even bluntly, concerning their sexual organs, the sexual desire, and the sexual act . . . . This is the book on sex that Christian parents can give to their youth, as the aid to the parents' own frank instruction."" --David J. Engelsma, professor of theology emeritus, Protestant Reformed Seminary, Grandville, Michigan ""[Kennedy's] book helps Christian young men and women to handle with care the gift of sexuality, which is treated as a god by the world. . . . I encourage every young person to read this precious book and take Kennedy's advice to heart."" --Balint Mark Vasarhelyi, theologian and mathematician, Hungarian translator for the Protestant Reformed Churches
Description
God's good gift of sexuality and how to use it for His glory and our good has been corrupted since the creation of the world. Sex between unmarried (fornication), adultery, divorce and remarriage, and homosexuality are accepted as normal in modern society and young people, even Christian young people, are being influenced by this Satanic lie that ""if it feels good--do it!"" This booklet is sent out with the prayer that it will save many young people from heartache and the curse that these serious sexual sins will bring on them. There is the good way, the biblical or reformed way for living chastely as a single person, finding and courting a mate, and marrying and staying faithful to that mate. This booklet has been a long time since inception to publication! First conceived thirty years ago, very few copies of an older version were produced by Covenant Evangelical Reformed Church for young people in Singapore in 2011. The original has been substantially expanded by quotations from Protestant Reformed Church ministers. ""This book on sexuality and sex by a medical doctor who is a Christian is as rare as it is helpful to young people and their parents. It does what parents ought to do, but often neglect to do. It instructs young people, frankly, even bluntly, concerning their sexual organs, the sexual desire, and the sexual act . . . . This is the book on sex that Christian parents can give to their youth, as the aid to the parents' own frank instruction."" --David J. Engelsma, professor of theology emeritus, Protestant Reformed Seminary, Grandville, Michigan ""[Kennedy's] book helps Christian young men and women to handle with care the gift of sexuality, which is treated as a god by the world. . . . I encourage every young person to read this precious book and take Kennedy's advice to heart."" --Balint Mark Vasarhelyi, theologian and mathematician, Hungarian translator for the Protestant Reformed Churches
About the Author
Julian Kennedy is a Scotsman and Edinburgh University medical graduate (1976). He came to faith in 1974. In 1983 he was sent by his church as a medical officer aboard the OM ship MV Logos and met his wife-to-be, Marianna, in Venezuela. They courted by letter and married at her home in Trinidad in 1985. They have two adult daughters and a son. He worked mainly in emergency medicine until he retired in 2017. He is a deacon of Covenant Protestant Reformed Church in Ballymena, Northern Ireland.
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- Used - Acceptable: All pages and the cover are intact, but shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Pages may include limited notes, highlighting, or minor water damage but the text is readable. Item may but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting, but the text cannot be obscured or unreadable.
Note: Some electronic material access codes are valid only for one user. For this reason, used books, including books listed in the Used – Like New condition, may not come with functional electronic material access codes.
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- Packages are shipped from Monday to Friday.
- No additional fees and charges.
Delivery Times
The usual time for processing an order is 24 hours (1 business day), but may vary depending on the availability of products ordered. This period excludes delivery times, which depend on your geographic location.
Estimated delivery times:
- Standard Shipping: 5-8 business days
- Expedited Shipping: 3-5 business days
Shipping method varies depending on what is being shipped.
Tracking
All orders are shipped with a tracking number. Once your order has left our warehouse, a confirmation e-mail with a tracking number will be sent to you. You will be able to track your package at all times.
Damaged Parcel
If your package has been delivered in a PO Box, please note that we are not responsible for any damage that may result (consequences of extreme temperatures, theft, etc.).
If you have any questions regarding shipping or want to know about the status of an order, please contact us or email to support@stevensbooks.com.
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You may return most items within 30 days of delivery for a full refund.
To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.
Several types of goods are exempt from being returned. Perishable goods such as food, flowers, newspapers or magazines cannot be returned. We also do not accept products that are intimate or sanitary goods, hazardous materials, or flammable liquids or gases.
Additional non-returnable items:
- Gift cards
- Downloadable software products
- Some health and personal care items
To complete your return, we require a tracking number, which shows the items which you already returned to us.
There are certain situations where only partial refunds are granted (if applicable)
- Book with obvious signs of use
- CD, DVD, VHS tape, software, video game, cassette tape, or vinyl record that has been opened
- Any item not in its original condition, is damaged or missing parts for reasons not due to our error
- Any item that is returned more than 30 days after delivery
Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.
Items returned to us that were not the result of our error, including items returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address, will be refunded the original item price less our standard restocking fees.
If the item is returned to us for any of the following reasons, a 15% restocking fee will be applied to your refund total and you will be asked to pay for return shipping:
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- Item(s) returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address.
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You should expect to receive your refund within four weeks of giving your package to the return shipper, however, in many cases you will receive a refund more quickly. This time period includes the transit time for us to receive your return from the shipper (5 to 10 business days), the time it takes us to process your return once we receive it (3 to 5 business days), and the time it takes your bank to process our refund request (5 to 10 business days).
If you need to return an item, please Contact Us with your order number and details about the product you would like to return. We will respond quickly with instructions for how to return items from your order.
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Depending on where you live, the time it may take for your exchanged product to reach you, may vary.
If you are shipping an item over $75, you should consider using a trackable shipping service or purchasing shipping insurance. We don’t guarantee that we will receive your returned item.
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