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Let's Talk: Bridging Divisive Lines through Inclusive and Respectful Conversations

Paperback |English |1725296055 | 9781725296053

Let's Talk: Bridging Divisive Lines through Inclusive and Respectful Conversations

Paperback |English |1725296055 | 9781725296053
Overview


The state of public discourse in America is dismal, reflecting an extreme us-versus-them tribalism where "me and my folks" have the full truth about the contentious issue at hand and "those other folks" are devoid of any truth and can even be demonized as evil. Rather than just cursing this darkness, Harold Heie presents what he considers to be a "better way" for those who disagree about contentious issues to respectfully engage one another, a way that is deeply informed by his Christian faith perspective; a way that reflects his understanding that to listen carefully to those who disagree with you and to then talk respectfully about your disagreements is a deep expression of the love for others to which Jesus calls all those who claim to be his followers. But this book is not just an abstract consideration of the nature of civil public discourse. Rather, drawing on his successes and failures, the beautiful and the ugly, in his attempts to orchestrate respectful conversations on contentious issues, both online and in small-group face-to-face meetings during the past decade, Heie presents practical, concrete proposals for how to talk to one another about significant disagreements, particularly in Christian churches that have tragically succumbed to tribalism.
ISBN: 1725296055
ISBN13: 9781725296053
Author: Harold Heie
Publisher: Cascade Books
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2021-12-10
Language: English
PageCount: 152
Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.38 x 8.5 inches
Weight: 7.04 ounces


The state of public discourse in America is dismal, reflecting an extreme us-versus-them tribalism where "me and my folks" have the full truth about the contentious issue at hand and "those other folks" are devoid of any truth and can even be demonized as evil. Rather than just cursing this darkness, Harold Heie presents what he considers to be a "better way" for those who disagree about contentious issues to respectfully engage one another, a way that is deeply informed by his Christian faith perspective; a way that reflects his understanding that to listen carefully to those who disagree with you and to then talk respectfully about your disagreements is a deep expression of the love for others to which Jesus calls all those who claim to be his followers. But this book is not just an abstract consideration of the nature of civil public discourse. Rather, drawing on his successes and failures, the beautiful and the ugly, in his attempts to orchestrate respectful conversations on contentious issues, both online and in small-group face-to-face meetings during the past decade, Heie presents practical, concrete proposals for how to talk to one another about significant disagreements, particularly in Christian churches that have tragically succumbed to tribalism.
Editorial Reviews


"The way that--in this social and political climate--Harold Heie believes it might just be possible to have 'respectful conversations' in which 'listening well' prevails must make him the Don Quixote of the Christian world. But maybe, instead of being lost in a never-never land of impossibility, Harold is actually walking the narrow path that leads to eternal life. Read the book to find out why that outrageous idea might actually be the truth."


--Mark Noll, author of Jesus Christ and the Life of the Mind



"Thanks to Harold Heie for his new book, Let's Talk. God knows how much we need it in these divisive times! If you'd like to be part of the solution rather than just complaining about the problem, this is a timely, helpful resource."


--Brian D. McLaren, author of Faith after Doubt: Why Your Beliefs Stopped Working and What to Do about It



"In this revealing and compelling memoir, Heie demonstrates the many qualities that set him apart as a mature and exemplary follower of Jesus. For years, Heie has been calling us to what he calls 'respectful conversations, ' marked by the biblical characteristics of 'gentleness and respect.' Those qualities, together with the author's characteristic humility, make this a book worthy of serious consideration."


--Randall Balmer, Dartmouth College



"So many of us today are imprisoned by tribal politics . . . . That polarization has infected the church, sharply damaging our internal fellowship and our external witness. Heie offers us a liberating way out of our political and religious imprisonment. . . . Learning how to be both honestly rooted in our commitments and deeply open to listening and learning from the other is required for the church's faithful future."


--Wes Granberg-Michaelson, author of Future Faith



"In a time of deep ideological and political polarization, churches have an opportunity and responsibility to model a different way, . . . not by forcing agreement but by inviting conversations that lead to deeper understanding and appreciation of our differences. Harold Heie seeks to give disciples of Jesus a path to reconciliation and renewal that is deeply needed by presenting concrete, practical advice for churches wishing to embark on this journey."


--Elizabeth Brown Hardeman, Co-pastor, American Reformed Church, Orange City, Iowa



"On every hand, people are offering reading lists to provide consolation, perspective, or simple distraction amid the raging COVID-19 pandemic. But another malady has plagued mankind for a long time: the vitriolic way in which we often talk to each other about our disagreements. If you want a reading list for that pandemic, I nominate Harold Heie's new book, Let's Talk. 'Come now and let us reason together, saith the Lord.'"


--John Wilson, Contributing Editor, Englewood Review of Books



Harold Heie served as Founding Director of the Center for Faith & Inquiry at Gordon College and as Vice President for Academic Affairs at Messiah College and Northwestern College in Iowa, after teaching mathematics at Gordon College and The King's College.

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Overview


The state of public discourse in America is dismal, reflecting an extreme us-versus-them tribalism where "me and my folks" have the full truth about the contentious issue at hand and "those other folks" are devoid of any truth and can even be demonized as evil. Rather than just cursing this darkness, Harold Heie presents what he considers to be a "better way" for those who disagree about contentious issues to respectfully engage one another, a way that is deeply informed by his Christian faith perspective; a way that reflects his understanding that to listen carefully to those who disagree with you and to then talk respectfully about your disagreements is a deep expression of the love for others to which Jesus calls all those who claim to be his followers. But this book is not just an abstract consideration of the nature of civil public discourse. Rather, drawing on his successes and failures, the beautiful and the ugly, in his attempts to orchestrate respectful conversations on contentious issues, both online and in small-group face-to-face meetings during the past decade, Heie presents practical, concrete proposals for how to talk to one another about significant disagreements, particularly in Christian churches that have tragically succumbed to tribalism.
ISBN: 1725296055
ISBN13: 9781725296053
Author: Harold Heie
Publisher: Cascade Books
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2021-12-10
Language: English
PageCount: 152
Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.38 x 8.5 inches
Weight: 7.04 ounces


The state of public discourse in America is dismal, reflecting an extreme us-versus-them tribalism where "me and my folks" have the full truth about the contentious issue at hand and "those other folks" are devoid of any truth and can even be demonized as evil. Rather than just cursing this darkness, Harold Heie presents what he considers to be a "better way" for those who disagree about contentious issues to respectfully engage one another, a way that is deeply informed by his Christian faith perspective; a way that reflects his understanding that to listen carefully to those who disagree with you and to then talk respectfully about your disagreements is a deep expression of the love for others to which Jesus calls all those who claim to be his followers. But this book is not just an abstract consideration of the nature of civil public discourse. Rather, drawing on his successes and failures, the beautiful and the ugly, in his attempts to orchestrate respectful conversations on contentious issues, both online and in small-group face-to-face meetings during the past decade, Heie presents practical, concrete proposals for how to talk to one another about significant disagreements, particularly in Christian churches that have tragically succumbed to tribalism.
Editorial Reviews


"The way that--in this social and political climate--Harold Heie believes it might just be possible to have 'respectful conversations' in which 'listening well' prevails must make him the Don Quixote of the Christian world. But maybe, instead of being lost in a never-never land of impossibility, Harold is actually walking the narrow path that leads to eternal life. Read the book to find out why that outrageous idea might actually be the truth."


--Mark Noll, author of Jesus Christ and the Life of the Mind



"Thanks to Harold Heie for his new book, Let's Talk. God knows how much we need it in these divisive times! If you'd like to be part of the solution rather than just complaining about the problem, this is a timely, helpful resource."


--Brian D. McLaren, author of Faith after Doubt: Why Your Beliefs Stopped Working and What to Do about It



"In this revealing and compelling memoir, Heie demonstrates the many qualities that set him apart as a mature and exemplary follower of Jesus. For years, Heie has been calling us to what he calls 'respectful conversations, ' marked by the biblical characteristics of 'gentleness and respect.' Those qualities, together with the author's characteristic humility, make this a book worthy of serious consideration."


--Randall Balmer, Dartmouth College



"So many of us today are imprisoned by tribal politics . . . . That polarization has infected the church, sharply damaging our internal fellowship and our external witness. Heie offers us a liberating way out of our political and religious imprisonment. . . . Learning how to be both honestly rooted in our commitments and deeply open to listening and learning from the other is required for the church's faithful future."


--Wes Granberg-Michaelson, author of Future Faith



"In a time of deep ideological and political polarization, churches have an opportunity and responsibility to model a different way, . . . not by forcing agreement but by inviting conversations that lead to deeper understanding and appreciation of our differences. Harold Heie seeks to give disciples of Jesus a path to reconciliation and renewal that is deeply needed by presenting concrete, practical advice for churches wishing to embark on this journey."


--Elizabeth Brown Hardeman, Co-pastor, American Reformed Church, Orange City, Iowa



"On every hand, people are offering reading lists to provide consolation, perspective, or simple distraction amid the raging COVID-19 pandemic. But another malady has plagued mankind for a long time: the vitriolic way in which we often talk to each other about our disagreements. If you want a reading list for that pandemic, I nominate Harold Heie's new book, Let's Talk. 'Come now and let us reason together, saith the Lord.'"


--John Wilson, Contributing Editor, Englewood Review of Books



Harold Heie served as Founding Director of the Center for Faith & Inquiry at Gordon College and as Vice President for Academic Affairs at Messiah College and Northwestern College in Iowa, after teaching mathematics at Gordon College and The King's College.

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  • Used - Acceptable: All pages and the cover are intact, but shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Pages may include limited notes, highlighting, or minor water damage but the text is readable. Item may but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting, but the text cannot be obscured or unreadable.

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Estimated delivery times:

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  • Expedited Shipping: 3-5 business days

Shipping method varies depending on what is being shipped.  

Tracking
All orders are shipped with a tracking number. Once your order has left our warehouse, a confirmation e-mail with a tracking number will be sent to you. You will be able to track your package at all times. 

Damaged Parcel
If your package has been delivered in a PO Box, please note that we are not responsible for any damage that may result (consequences of extreme temperatures, theft, etc.). 

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To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.

Several types of goods are exempt from being returned. Perishable goods such as food, flowers, newspapers or magazines cannot be returned. We also do not accept products that are intimate or sanitary goods, hazardous materials, or flammable liquids or gases.

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  • Gift cards
  • Downloadable software products
  • Some health and personal care items

To complete your return, we require a tracking number, which shows the items which you already returned to us.
There are certain situations where only partial refunds are granted (if applicable)

  • Book with obvious signs of use
  • CD, DVD, VHS tape, software, video game, cassette tape, or vinyl record that has been opened
  • Any item not in its original condition, is damaged or missing parts for reasons not due to our error
  • Any item that is returned more than 30 days after delivery

Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.

Items returned to us that were not the result of our error, including items returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address, will be refunded the original item price less our standard restocking fees.

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  • Item(s) returned to us that were not a result of our error.

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