The American Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Chivalry
The American Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Chivalry
Overview
FOREWORDYou will not find a thousand-and-one "rules of etiquette" or a guide to hedonism in this book. Instead, you will find a gentleman's manifesto based on the life experiences and considerations of a young professional American man seeking social civility and greater personal character.At the close of the twentieth century, some American men and women have devalued traditional values, like integrity and graciousness and other elements of civilized culture. Reflecting this mentality, our economy, popular media and entertainment have reinforced ideas and personal behaviors that are less honorable and less civil. Sadly, portrayed as a boor, the young American man is seen by some as self-centered and cowardly, behaving poorly and treating women disrespectfully. Yet, you may ask, why be a gentleman?Simply, being a gentleman allows for character evolution. It confers to others that he is a man who actively pursues the moral high road and realizes his character, perpetually evolving, is linked to his deeds. Understand being a gentleman requires effort and self-sacrifice and a gentleman tries to give of himself without expectation. Equally as important, a gentleman is a man who respectfully places a woman's concerns before his own.The American Gentlemanstrives to make life more fulfilling and is written to inspire young men to adopt a personal philosophy for growth and maturity. Through observation, integrity, spiritual philanthropy, altruism and realizing reality is perception --a state of charactercan be formed for self-improvement.Also, taking ideas from the past, the book offers some thoughts on courtship and rules of etiquette that have been updated for our modern life. To provide clarity relating to courtship and romance, the book offers chivalric principles as one way to develop mature and loving relationships.Not dogmatic,The American Gentlemanis written with certain questions in mind: How may "chivalry" be applied today? When does it become chauvinism? Are there present customs or behaviors that may be improved? How can men and women behave more harmoniously? In other words, is there civilized behavior that can be identified, explained and formulated into a recognized standard and then applied to twenty first century life.The book is primarily intended to address the concerns of the modern American male through his character while maintaining sensitivity to the concerns of women who also seek an updated code of male behavior. In addition, the book briefly touches on our present social condition.As storm clouds gather on the horizon of American society, many men and women are seeking a greater meaning of life. Most troubling is the polarizing of American culture. Divisive trends in political ideology, wealth, sex relations and family dynamics are impacting the way Americans live. It is time for change.The American Gentlemanoffers a way for men to achieve their personal goals while assisting others along the way. Enjoy.Michael Hall, Manhattan, January 2001Description
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Overview
FOREWORDYou will not find a thousand-and-one "rules of etiquette" or a guide to hedonism in this book. Instead, you will find a gentleman's manifesto based on the life experiences and considerations of a young professional American man seeking social civility and greater personal character.At the close of the twentieth century, some American men and women have devalued traditional values, like integrity and graciousness and other elements of civilized culture. Reflecting this mentality, our economy, popular media and entertainment have reinforced ideas and personal behaviors that are less honorable and less civil. Sadly, portrayed as a boor, the young American man is seen by some as self-centered and cowardly, behaving poorly and treating women disrespectfully. Yet, you may ask, why be a gentleman?Simply, being a gentleman allows for character evolution. It confers to others that he is a man who actively pursues the moral high road and realizes his character, perpetually evolving, is linked to his deeds. Understand being a gentleman requires effort and self-sacrifice and a gentleman tries to give of himself without expectation. Equally as important, a gentleman is a man who respectfully places a woman's concerns before his own.The American Gentlemanstrives to make life more fulfilling and is written to inspire young men to adopt a personal philosophy for growth and maturity. Through observation, integrity, spiritual philanthropy, altruism and realizing reality is perception --a state of charactercan be formed for self-improvement.Also, taking ideas from the past, the book offers some thoughts on courtship and rules of etiquette that have been updated for our modern life. To provide clarity relating to courtship and romance, the book offers chivalric principles as one way to develop mature and loving relationships.Not dogmatic,The American Gentlemanis written with certain questions in mind: How may "chivalry" be applied today? When does it become chauvinism? Are there present customs or behaviors that may be improved? How can men and women behave more harmoniously? In other words, is there civilized behavior that can be identified, explained and formulated into a recognized standard and then applied to twenty first century life.The book is primarily intended to address the concerns of the modern American male through his character while maintaining sensitivity to the concerns of women who also seek an updated code of male behavior. In addition, the book briefly touches on our present social condition.As storm clouds gather on the horizon of American society, many men and women are seeking a greater meaning of life. Most troubling is the polarizing of American culture. Divisive trends in political ideology, wealth, sex relations and family dynamics are impacting the way Americans live. It is time for change.The American Gentlemanoffers a way for men to achieve their personal goals while assisting others along the way. Enjoy.Michael Hall, Manhattan, January 2001Description
Condition Guidelines
Books - New and Used
The following guidelines apply to books:
- New: A brand-new copy with cover and original protective wrapping intact. Books with markings of any kind on the cover or pages, books marked as "Bargain" or "Remainder," or with any other labels attached, may not be listed as New condition.
- Used - Good: All pages and cover are intact (including the dust cover, if applicable). Spine may show signs of wear. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting. May include "From the library of" labels. Shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Item may be missing bundled media.
- Used - Acceptable: All pages and the cover are intact, but shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Pages may include limited notes, highlighting, or minor water damage but the text is readable. Item may but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting, but the text cannot be obscured or unreadable.
Note: Some electronic material access codes are valid only for one user. For this reason, used books, including books listed in the Used – Like New condition, may not come with functional electronic material access codes.
Shipping & Delivery
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- Stevens Books offers FREE SHIPPING everywhere in the United States for ALL non-book orders, and $3.99 for each book.
- Packages are shipped from Monday to Friday.
- No additional fees and charges.
Delivery Times
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Estimated delivery times:
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If your package has been delivered in a PO Box, please note that we are not responsible for any damage that may result (consequences of extreme temperatures, theft, etc.).
If you have any questions regarding shipping or want to know about the status of an order, please contact us or email to support@stevensbooks.com.
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You may return most items within 30 days of delivery for a full refund.
To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.
Several types of goods are exempt from being returned. Perishable goods such as food, flowers, newspapers or magazines cannot be returned. We also do not accept products that are intimate or sanitary goods, hazardous materials, or flammable liquids or gases.
Additional non-returnable items:
- Gift cards
- Downloadable software products
- Some health and personal care items
To complete your return, we require a tracking number, which shows the items which you already returned to us.
There are certain situations where only partial refunds are granted (if applicable)
- Book with obvious signs of use
- CD, DVD, VHS tape, software, video game, cassette tape, or vinyl record that has been opened
- Any item not in its original condition, is damaged or missing parts for reasons not due to our error
- Any item that is returned more than 30 days after delivery
Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.
Items returned to us that were not the result of our error, including items returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address, will be refunded the original item price less our standard restocking fees.
If the item is returned to us for any of the following reasons, a 15% restocking fee will be applied to your refund total and you will be asked to pay for return shipping:
- Item(s) no longer needed or wanted.
- Item(s) returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address.
- Item(s) returned to us that were not a result of our error.
You should expect to receive your refund within four weeks of giving your package to the return shipper, however, in many cases you will receive a refund more quickly. This time period includes the transit time for us to receive your return from the shipper (5 to 10 business days), the time it takes us to process your return once we receive it (3 to 5 business days), and the time it takes your bank to process our refund request (5 to 10 business days).
If you need to return an item, please Contact Us with your order number and details about the product you would like to return. We will respond quickly with instructions for how to return items from your order.
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We'll pay the return shipping costs if the return is a result of our error (you received an incorrect or defective item, etc.). In other cases, you will be responsible for paying for your own shipping costs for returning your item. Shipping costs are non-refundable. If you receive a refund, the cost of return shipping will be deducted from your refund.
Depending on where you live, the time it may take for your exchanged product to reach you, may vary.
If you are shipping an item over $75, you should consider using a trackable shipping service or purchasing shipping insurance. We don’t guarantee that we will receive your returned item.
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