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There are no Right Answers to Wrong Questions: 15 Ways Our Questions Influence Our Choices to Live a Christian Life

Paperback |English |1498289940 | 9781498289948

There are no Right Answers to Wrong Questions: 15 Ways Our Questions Influence Our Choices to Live a Christian Life

Paperback |English |1498289940 | 9781498289948
Overview

Abraham Joshua Heschel said that, ""We are closer to God when we are asking questions than when we have the answers."" He believed that to be a Christian is not to be a person who knows all the answers but one who ""lives in the part of the self where the question is constantly being born."" Most of us don't think very much about our questions. In our culture, we are accustomed to being able to find out answers to nearly any question just by typing it into Google search or asking Siri. But behind any answer, there is always a question. Sometimes, the question isn't clear to us; sometimes, it is not very well articulated, even to ourselves. But it is always there. In over thirty years as a psychotherapist and spiritual director, Peter C. Wilcox has seen how the questions people ask themselves have shaped their lives in some very important ways. This book is an invitation to see how important it is to learn how to ask the right questions about our lives. This is because our choice of questions leads us on a path of discovery towards answers that help us to grow spiritually and psychologically. Our questions orient our lives and give direction to us. We will see that they enable us to make fifteen choices that have a tremendous impact on the kind of person we become. ""A book for today's dilemmas, caringly, patiently reflected upon by an author filled with those gifts and someone deeply sensitive to the personal challenges affecting us all."" --Eugene Hasson, Parish Priest in the parishes of Lavey and Greenlough in the diocese of Derry, Ireland ""With numerous uplifting anecdotes from his own spiritual life and counseling, Peter offers an inspiring and practical way forward for the sincere Christian seeking a healthier self image, while enriching their personal relationship with Christ. I highly recommend this book, especially for pastors and spiritual directors."" --Jim Caldwell, life-long friend ""In the tradition of Socrates, Jesus, and St. Francis, Dr. Wilcox teaches us the value of questions in our life's journey and how to frame those same questions so that by posing them we realize our true selves. It is a guide to the map of life and shows us how to navigate through the problems and difficulties that we face in our quest for truth and for God's love."" --Bob Thabet, Lay Minister, Diocese of Orlando ""In There are No Right Answers to Wrong Questions, Dr. Wilcox invites us to wonder about and examine our life's questions and choices. His stories, woven with lessons from Scripture, create a framework for deep reflection. I look forward to sharing this book with my spiritual companions."" --Elaine Ireland, former student of Dr. Wilcox; Christian writer, Ellicott City, MD ""Peter Wilcox has written a challenging and thought provoking book. Our modern need for instant answers because of our busyness keeps us from knowing and appreciating ourselves. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to find the deeper meanings in life."" --Colette Stevenson, Marriage and family counselor; Presentation Sister, Ireland Peter C. Wilcox, STD, has been a psychotherapist and spiritual director for over thirty years. He holds a doctorate in theology from the Catholic University of America and has taught at the Washington Theological Union, Loyola University Maryland, and St. Bonaventure University. He has directed retreats and conducted seminars on personality development and spiritual growth for many years. He is the author of John Henry Newman, Spiritual Director 1845-1890 (2013), and A Sheltering Tree, Inspirational Stories of Faith, Fidelity and Friendship (2014), and Don't Be a Waster of Sorrows (2015). Dr. Wilcox lives in Aiken, South Carolina, with his wife and daughter.
ISBN: 1498289940
ISBN13: 9781498289948
Author: Peter C. Wilcox
Publisher: Resource Publications
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2016-06-28
Language: English
PageCount: 144
Dimensions: 6.0 x 0.33 x 9.0 inches
Weight: 9.6 ounces

Abraham Joshua Heschel said that, ""We are closer to God when we are asking questions than when we have the answers."" He believed that to be a Christian is not to be a person who knows all the answers but one who ""lives in the part of the self where the question is constantly being born."" Most of us don't think very much about our questions. In our culture, we are accustomed to being able to find out answers to nearly any question just by typing it into Google search or asking Siri. But behind any answer, there is always a question. Sometimes, the question isn't clear to us; sometimes, it is not very well articulated, even to ourselves. But it is always there. In over thirty years as a psychotherapist and spiritual director, Peter C. Wilcox has seen how the questions people ask themselves have shaped their lives in some very important ways. This book is an invitation to see how important it is to learn how to ask the right questions about our lives. This is because our choice of questions leads us on a path of discovery towards answers that help us to grow spiritually and psychologically. Our questions orient our lives and give direction to us. We will see that they enable us to make fifteen choices that have a tremendous impact on the kind of person we become. ""A book for today's dilemmas, caringly, patiently reflected upon by an author filled with those gifts and someone deeply sensitive to the personal challenges affecting us all."" --Eugene Hasson, Parish Priest in the parishes of Lavey and Greenlough in the diocese of Derry, Ireland ""With numerous uplifting anecdotes from his own spiritual life and counseling, Peter offers an inspiring and practical way forward for the sincere Christian seeking a healthier self image, while enriching their personal relationship with Christ. I highly recommend this book, especially for pastors and spiritual directors."" --Jim Caldwell, life-long friend ""In the tradition of Socrates, Jesus, and St. Francis, Dr. Wilcox teaches us the value of questions in our life's journey and how to frame those same questions so that by posing them we realize our true selves. It is a guide to the map of life and shows us how to navigate through the problems and difficulties that we face in our quest for truth and for God's love."" --Bob Thabet, Lay Minister, Diocese of Orlando ""In There are No Right Answers to Wrong Questions, Dr. Wilcox invites us to wonder about and examine our life's questions and choices. His stories, woven with lessons from Scripture, create a framework for deep reflection. I look forward to sharing this book with my spiritual companions."" --Elaine Ireland, former student of Dr. Wilcox; Christian writer, Ellicott City, MD ""Peter Wilcox has written a challenging and thought provoking book. Our modern need for instant answers because of our busyness keeps us from knowing and appreciating ourselves. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to find the deeper meanings in life."" --Colette Stevenson, Marriage and family counselor; Presentation Sister, Ireland Peter C. Wilcox, STD, has been a psychotherapist and spiritual director for over thirty years. He holds a doctorate in theology from the Catholic University of America and has taught at the Washington Theological Union, Loyola University Maryland, and St. Bonaventure University. He has directed retreats and conducted seminars on personality development and spiritual growth for many years. He is the author of John Henry Newman, Spiritual Director 1845-1890 (2013), and A Sheltering Tree, Inspirational Stories of Faith, Fidelity and Friendship (2014), and Don't Be a Waster of Sorrows (2015). Dr. Wilcox lives in Aiken, South Carolina, with his wife and daughter.

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  • Downloadable software products
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Overview

Abraham Joshua Heschel said that, ""We are closer to God when we are asking questions than when we have the answers."" He believed that to be a Christian is not to be a person who knows all the answers but one who ""lives in the part of the self where the question is constantly being born."" Most of us don't think very much about our questions. In our culture, we are accustomed to being able to find out answers to nearly any question just by typing it into Google search or asking Siri. But behind any answer, there is always a question. Sometimes, the question isn't clear to us; sometimes, it is not very well articulated, even to ourselves. But it is always there. In over thirty years as a psychotherapist and spiritual director, Peter C. Wilcox has seen how the questions people ask themselves have shaped their lives in some very important ways. This book is an invitation to see how important it is to learn how to ask the right questions about our lives. This is because our choice of questions leads us on a path of discovery towards answers that help us to grow spiritually and psychologically. Our questions orient our lives and give direction to us. We will see that they enable us to make fifteen choices that have a tremendous impact on the kind of person we become. ""A book for today's dilemmas, caringly, patiently reflected upon by an author filled with those gifts and someone deeply sensitive to the personal challenges affecting us all."" --Eugene Hasson, Parish Priest in the parishes of Lavey and Greenlough in the diocese of Derry, Ireland ""With numerous uplifting anecdotes from his own spiritual life and counseling, Peter offers an inspiring and practical way forward for the sincere Christian seeking a healthier self image, while enriching their personal relationship with Christ. I highly recommend this book, especially for pastors and spiritual directors."" --Jim Caldwell, life-long friend ""In the tradition of Socrates, Jesus, and St. Francis, Dr. Wilcox teaches us the value of questions in our life's journey and how to frame those same questions so that by posing them we realize our true selves. It is a guide to the map of life and shows us how to navigate through the problems and difficulties that we face in our quest for truth and for God's love."" --Bob Thabet, Lay Minister, Diocese of Orlando ""In There are No Right Answers to Wrong Questions, Dr. Wilcox invites us to wonder about and examine our life's questions and choices. His stories, woven with lessons from Scripture, create a framework for deep reflection. I look forward to sharing this book with my spiritual companions."" --Elaine Ireland, former student of Dr. Wilcox; Christian writer, Ellicott City, MD ""Peter Wilcox has written a challenging and thought provoking book. Our modern need for instant answers because of our busyness keeps us from knowing and appreciating ourselves. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to find the deeper meanings in life."" --Colette Stevenson, Marriage and family counselor; Presentation Sister, Ireland Peter C. Wilcox, STD, has been a psychotherapist and spiritual director for over thirty years. He holds a doctorate in theology from the Catholic University of America and has taught at the Washington Theological Union, Loyola University Maryland, and St. Bonaventure University. He has directed retreats and conducted seminars on personality development and spiritual growth for many years. He is the author of John Henry Newman, Spiritual Director 1845-1890 (2013), and A Sheltering Tree, Inspirational Stories of Faith, Fidelity and Friendship (2014), and Don't Be a Waster of Sorrows (2015). Dr. Wilcox lives in Aiken, South Carolina, with his wife and daughter.
ISBN: 1498289940
ISBN13: 9781498289948
Author: Peter C. Wilcox
Publisher: Resource Publications
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2016-06-28
Language: English
PageCount: 144
Dimensions: 6.0 x 0.33 x 9.0 inches
Weight: 9.6 ounces

Abraham Joshua Heschel said that, ""We are closer to God when we are asking questions than when we have the answers."" He believed that to be a Christian is not to be a person who knows all the answers but one who ""lives in the part of the self where the question is constantly being born."" Most of us don't think very much about our questions. In our culture, we are accustomed to being able to find out answers to nearly any question just by typing it into Google search or asking Siri. But behind any answer, there is always a question. Sometimes, the question isn't clear to us; sometimes, it is not very well articulated, even to ourselves. But it is always there. In over thirty years as a psychotherapist and spiritual director, Peter C. Wilcox has seen how the questions people ask themselves have shaped their lives in some very important ways. This book is an invitation to see how important it is to learn how to ask the right questions about our lives. This is because our choice of questions leads us on a path of discovery towards answers that help us to grow spiritually and psychologically. Our questions orient our lives and give direction to us. We will see that they enable us to make fifteen choices that have a tremendous impact on the kind of person we become. ""A book for today's dilemmas, caringly, patiently reflected upon by an author filled with those gifts and someone deeply sensitive to the personal challenges affecting us all."" --Eugene Hasson, Parish Priest in the parishes of Lavey and Greenlough in the diocese of Derry, Ireland ""With numerous uplifting anecdotes from his own spiritual life and counseling, Peter offers an inspiring and practical way forward for the sincere Christian seeking a healthier self image, while enriching their personal relationship with Christ. I highly recommend this book, especially for pastors and spiritual directors."" --Jim Caldwell, life-long friend ""In the tradition of Socrates, Jesus, and St. Francis, Dr. Wilcox teaches us the value of questions in our life's journey and how to frame those same questions so that by posing them we realize our true selves. It is a guide to the map of life and shows us how to navigate through the problems and difficulties that we face in our quest for truth and for God's love."" --Bob Thabet, Lay Minister, Diocese of Orlando ""In There are No Right Answers to Wrong Questions, Dr. Wilcox invites us to wonder about and examine our life's questions and choices. His stories, woven with lessons from Scripture, create a framework for deep reflection. I look forward to sharing this book with my spiritual companions."" --Elaine Ireland, former student of Dr. Wilcox; Christian writer, Ellicott City, MD ""Peter Wilcox has written a challenging and thought provoking book. Our modern need for instant answers because of our busyness keeps us from knowing and appreciating ourselves. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to find the deeper meanings in life."" --Colette Stevenson, Marriage and family counselor; Presentation Sister, Ireland Peter C. Wilcox, STD, has been a psychotherapist and spiritual director for over thirty years. He holds a doctorate in theology from the Catholic University of America and has taught at the Washington Theological Union, Loyola University Maryland, and St. Bonaventure University. He has directed retreats and conducted seminars on personality development and spiritual growth for many years. He is the author of John Henry Newman, Spiritual Director 1845-1890 (2013), and A Sheltering Tree, Inspirational Stories of Faith, Fidelity and Friendship (2014), and Don't Be a Waster of Sorrows (2015). Dr. Wilcox lives in Aiken, South Carolina, with his wife and daughter.

Books - New and Used

The following guidelines apply to books:

  • New: A brand-new copy with cover and original protective wrapping intact. Books with markings of any kind on the cover or pages, books marked as "Bargain" or "Remainder," or with any other labels attached, may not be listed as New condition.
  • Used - Good: All pages and cover are intact (including the dust cover, if applicable). Spine may show signs of wear. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting. May include "From the library of" labels. Shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Item may be missing bundled media.
  • Used - Acceptable: All pages and the cover are intact, but shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Pages may include limited notes, highlighting, or minor water damage but the text is readable. Item may but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting, but the text cannot be obscured or unreadable.

Note: Some electronic material access codes are valid only for one user. For this reason, used books, including books listed in the Used – Like New condition, may not come with functional electronic material access codes.

Shipping Fees

  • Stevens Books offers FREE SHIPPING everywhere in the United States for ALL non-book orders, and $3.99 for each book.
  • Packages are shipped from Monday to Friday.
  • No additional fees and charges.

Delivery Times

The usual time for processing an order is 24 hours (1 business day), but may vary depending on the availability of products ordered. This period excludes delivery times, which depend on your geographic location.

Estimated delivery times:

  • Standard Shipping: 5-8 business days
  • Expedited Shipping: 3-5 business days

Shipping method varies depending on what is being shipped.  

Tracking
All orders are shipped with a tracking number. Once your order has left our warehouse, a confirmation e-mail with a tracking number will be sent to you. You will be able to track your package at all times. 

Damaged Parcel
If your package has been delivered in a PO Box, please note that we are not responsible for any damage that may result (consequences of extreme temperatures, theft, etc.). 

If you have any questions regarding shipping or want to know about the status of an order, please contact us or email to support@stevensbooks.com.

You may return most items within 30 days of delivery for a full refund.

To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.

Several types of goods are exempt from being returned. Perishable goods such as food, flowers, newspapers or magazines cannot be returned. We also do not accept products that are intimate or sanitary goods, hazardous materials, or flammable liquids or gases.

Additional non-returnable items:

  • Gift cards
  • Downloadable software products
  • Some health and personal care items

To complete your return, we require a tracking number, which shows the items which you already returned to us.
There are certain situations where only partial refunds are granted (if applicable)

  • Book with obvious signs of use
  • CD, DVD, VHS tape, software, video game, cassette tape, or vinyl record that has been opened
  • Any item not in its original condition, is damaged or missing parts for reasons not due to our error
  • Any item that is returned more than 30 days after delivery

Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.

Items returned to us that were not the result of our error, including items returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address, will be refunded the original item price less our standard restocking fees.

If the item is returned to us for any of the following reasons, a 15% restocking fee will be applied to your refund total and you will be asked to pay for return shipping:

  • Item(s) no longer needed or wanted.
  • Item(s) returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address.
  • Item(s) returned to us that were not a result of our error.

You should expect to receive your refund within four weeks of giving your package to the return shipper, however, in many cases you will receive a refund more quickly. This time period includes the transit time for us to receive your return from the shipper (5 to 10 business days), the time it takes us to process your return once we receive it (3 to 5 business days), and the time it takes your bank to process our refund request (5 to 10 business days).

If you need to return an item, please Contact Us with your order number and details about the product you would like to return. We will respond quickly with instructions for how to return items from your order.


Shipping Cost


We'll pay the return shipping costs if the return is a result of our error (you received an incorrect or defective item, etc.). In other cases, you will be responsible for paying for your own shipping costs for returning your item. Shipping costs are non-refundable. If you receive a refund, the cost of return shipping will be deducted from your refund.

Depending on where you live, the time it may take for your exchanged product to reach you, may vary.

If you are shipping an item over $75, you should consider using a trackable shipping service or purchasing shipping insurance. We don’t guarantee that we will receive your returned item.

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